Robard Weight Loss

First I want to congratulate you on your weight loss. You have made significant steps towards a healthier you. Many times the "loved ones" of a weight loss patient feels threatened by your success. It could be a concern that you won't see them the same way and may lose interest in them. If you still love and care about this person remind them of that and that it's only the outside that has changed and that your heart is still the same. If this person is feeling bitter towards you it may be time to sit down and discuss his/her reasons why. There is no excuse (ever) for disrespect or verbal abuse. If this is the case there may have been a problem before you lost weight and he/she may have felt protected by your former weight. With this situation comes the need to consider counseling. Good luck and congratulations!

Hi Marcia -  
 
I think the biggest thing I took away from your comment was the need for open communication in a situation such as this. It seems there are a myriad of different reasons for the change in attitude - though many closely linked - and until the root of the problem is found, it would be hard to work towards a solution.  
 
I really appreciate your well thought out response - and I'm sure others who have read this feel the same! Have you encountered situations such as this often? 
 
Thanks,  
Kelli 

This happens so frequently with our clients. Losing weight certainly empowers & strengthens you. You are NOT the same person you were. This can be good for you but not be so well received by others. The reasons vary but in general, its probably envy, fear, or a control issue. I've lost 100+ lbs & kept it off more than 20 years. I recall people telling me that they "liked me better" before the weight loss. I personally think that was because I agreed & did what others thought I should do. I did change & my life was never the same. If this is someone you really care about, take the time to tell them how you are feeling inside, how joyful you are & that you want them to share the joy with you. Change is not always easy to accept...but change is the only constant... Good Luck & Congratulations on your weight loss.